10 min

EP52 What To Do When You Want To Give Up Fearlessly Fertile Podcast

    • Health & Fitness

On the road to your baby, there will be temptation around every corner to just give up: Negative test results, statistics, the side eye from your treatment team, or loss of faith in your Bump Squad. Here’s a rebel-woman’s pivot that  will put you back on the path to baby making victory!



Transcript:

Hey, gorgeous. If you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist, I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure.



I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine, bad assery, and loads of hell. Yes. For your fertility journey, it's time to get fearless, baby fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, Episode 52.



What to do when you want to give up. Hey loves, this week I want to present you with a simple but powerful idea. It's one that is bound to get under your skin at some level, but that's kind of what I'm here to do. There is no growth in pandering or placating. I love you enough to tell you what I wish someone told me in the darkest moments of my own journey.



It's great to have someone tell you that it's gonna be alright every now and then, who doesn't love that? But if you're anything like me, the real change makers in your life are gonna be those that hold a vision for you that is bigger than your current challenges. People who demand more of you, people who expect excellence from you, people who see what you can't when you're in the shit pit, people who refuse to tolerate your excuses.



Those people, they aren't always going to be warm and fuzzy. I can also tell you for damn sure they aren't concerned about whether or not you like them. They don't have time to waste on that shit. What they do care about is showing up for you with integrity, to speak truth whether you like it or not, with a sincere desire to do right by you.



When I think back to each and every one of my mentors, they all embody these characteristics. There were times when I wanted to strangle them. There were times when I let my saboteurs convince me for a moment that they didn't really care about me because of course when people care about you, they are always supposed to agree with your sad sack story, right?



Wrong. It's these insights that I've gained over the years that form the basis for the real love I have in my heart for the people I brought into my life. As mentors and coaches, they helped me take the raw potential that existed in me and help me build something kind of beyond my wildest dreams.



Because when you think about it, what I do today and the global reach my work has, it's way beyond the hallowed halls of the courthouse I thought I would probably retire in. This, my loves, is the power of having someone a few steps ahead of you in your corner. They can see what you can't and they can help light the way.



As a woman who used to think that people who had coaches and mentors must be, you know, they must have huge problems and, you know, they must be like a hot mess. I can tell you that having coaches and mentors in my life helped me get to places that I never thought I would get to so much faster and, and in such a smarter way than I ever could on my own.



I realized that having coaches and mentors in my life was a way to give myself a strategic advantage. It's about truly seizing opportunities and living up to the potential that you're given in this life and ultimately doing what you're called to d...

On the road to your baby, there will be temptation around every corner to just give up: Negative test results, statistics, the side eye from your treatment team, or loss of faith in your Bump Squad. Here’s a rebel-woman’s pivot that  will put you back on the path to baby making victory!



Transcript:

Hey, gorgeous. If you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist, I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure.



I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine, bad assery, and loads of hell. Yes. For your fertility journey, it's time to get fearless, baby fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, Episode 52.



What to do when you want to give up. Hey loves, this week I want to present you with a simple but powerful idea. It's one that is bound to get under your skin at some level, but that's kind of what I'm here to do. There is no growth in pandering or placating. I love you enough to tell you what I wish someone told me in the darkest moments of my own journey.



It's great to have someone tell you that it's gonna be alright every now and then, who doesn't love that? But if you're anything like me, the real change makers in your life are gonna be those that hold a vision for you that is bigger than your current challenges. People who demand more of you, people who expect excellence from you, people who see what you can't when you're in the shit pit, people who refuse to tolerate your excuses.



Those people, they aren't always going to be warm and fuzzy. I can also tell you for damn sure they aren't concerned about whether or not you like them. They don't have time to waste on that shit. What they do care about is showing up for you with integrity, to speak truth whether you like it or not, with a sincere desire to do right by you.



When I think back to each and every one of my mentors, they all embody these characteristics. There were times when I wanted to strangle them. There were times when I let my saboteurs convince me for a moment that they didn't really care about me because of course when people care about you, they are always supposed to agree with your sad sack story, right?



Wrong. It's these insights that I've gained over the years that form the basis for the real love I have in my heart for the people I brought into my life. As mentors and coaches, they helped me take the raw potential that existed in me and help me build something kind of beyond my wildest dreams.



Because when you think about it, what I do today and the global reach my work has, it's way beyond the hallowed halls of the courthouse I thought I would probably retire in. This, my loves, is the power of having someone a few steps ahead of you in your corner. They can see what you can't and they can help light the way.



As a woman who used to think that people who had coaches and mentors must be, you know, they must have huge problems and, you know, they must be like a hot mess. I can tell you that having coaches and mentors in my life helped me get to places that I never thought I would get to so much faster and, and in such a smarter way than I ever could on my own.



I realized that having coaches and mentors in my life was a way to give myself a strategic advantage. It's about truly seizing opportunities and living up to the potential that you're given in this life and ultimately doing what you're called to d...

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