EP39 Holiday Rescue 911 Fearlessly Fertile Podcast

Worried about all of the triggers and pressures that tend to show up during the holiday season as you live your fertility journey? I’ve got 3 ideas that can shake your holidays up in the best possible way. Let’s make this holiday season AWESOME.



Transcript:

Hey, gorgeous. If you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist, I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure.



I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine, bad assery, and loads of hell. Yes. For your fertility journey, it's time to get fearless, baby fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 39, Holiday Rescue 911.



Hot damn, my loves, it is Thanksgiving week here in the States. And shit's about to get real real for all of us on this journey. And so I just wanted to speak directly to something that might be brewing in the back of your mind as you are preparing. This week, maybe you are going to be hosting Thanksgiving, or maybe you have family coming in, or maybe you're going to be hopping on a plane, getting in your sled, or whatever it is that you're doing to get to your family.



And I just want to give you a 9 1 1 intervention right now about the holidays just to support you and be a voice of reason in, I guess, shouting from the rafters about something that we don't talk about openly and can be so laden with baggage on this journey. And that is, how the f**k do we deal with the holidays when we're going through some shit on our journey?



So I want to break this down for you super quick and give you three really powerful ideas to play with right now. And This essentially starts with what anything should begin with. Any intelligent thing should begin with what you want your experience to be. And, you know, so often on this journey we just find ourselves in chaos mode, and we just roll in it, we don't really think strategically about it.



And that's just a setup for misery and regret. So, even if you haven't done this at this point, or maybe you have played with this idea, now is the time for you to do it. And just simply ask yourself, what are the holidays gonna be about for you this year? I don't care what they've been in the past, I don't care what other people have put on you about the holidays, my darling woman, What are the holidays about for you this year?



Because even if you're not super into the holidays or whatever, you're going to have people all around you for whom the holidays mean something. So you got to get in front of this, decide what are the holidays about for you? Okay. And I remember so many years on my own journey that. I just kind of kept doing what I had always done, got into ruts, and just sort of found myself hating a time of year that, in fact, is actually pretty special to me.



And I had just gotten into the, the rut of just doing what I had always done and never stopping to question if that was actually What I wanted to be doing and if those old traditions actually suited me anymore or did they need an upgrade an upgrade? That was actually a reflection of what I believed and where I was in my life so Just make that decision break it down decide what the holidays are going to be about for you And really this is just about you I know the temptation is is to get involved with like what your partner might think what your mom might think what your uncle might Neighbors, I mean all of that shit like Yeah,