EP36: The Antidote To Fertility Freak-Out At Your Fingertips Fearlessly Fertile Podcast

Learn a powerful technique for neutralizing fear and anxiety in the moment, as well as gain a new level of understanding about the undeniable power of the mind-body connection in my interview with Emotional Freedom Technique Master, Ben Schwarcz. Also learn how your unconscious mind can sabotage your success on this journey…and one thing you can DO about it. Learn more about Ben and his work at: https://tapping-coach.com/



Transcript:

Hey, gorgeous. If you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist, I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure.



I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey, just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey. It's time to get fearless, baby. Fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile podcast, episode 36, the antidote to fertility freak out at your fingertips.



Loves, this week I have a real doozy for you. Whether you've listened to my podcast, read my book, Am I the Reason I'm Not Getting Pregnant? The Fearlessly Fertile Method to Clearing the Blocks Between You and Your Baby, or both, you know that I've done some crazy shit in the name of bringing my son, Asher, home.



One of the most important lessons I learned from all of that was Yeah, I was doing every diet, treatment, lotion, and potion I could get my hands on to take care of my body so it could be a beacon of fertility perfection, but I was completely overlooking what so often proves to be the missing piece of the fertility puzzle.



My mind. Yes, I was eating a hundred percent organic, avoiding foods I used to love like the plague, taking loads of supplements and turning myself into a fertility yoga pretzel. But what was going on in my mind? Ooh, that was an absolute cesspool. Feeding myself up for shit in my past. Endlessly replaying scenarios of what I coulda, woulda, shoulda done, ruthlessly comparing myself to every woman who announced she was pregnant, and then quietly trying to tear her apart in my mind about how undeserving she was, then of course torturing myself with guilt about doing that.



Searching for certainty, I would come up with thousands of variables and fear rehearsed each one, thinking that would save me from the pain of disappointment, when all that did was rob me of years of my fucking life. I firmly believe, now that I have the benefit of time and years of experience, As well as seeing the miraculous impact of taking care of my mind, I could see that without one iota of doubt, the reason I wasn't getting pregnant was me.



None of my treatments would work, nor would my body cooperate if I was literally tearing myself apart like that. My mind and body had to start working together. The mind is the most underutilized resource we have on this journey, because we allow ourselves to be seduced into the idiotic notion that medicine alone is going to save our asses.



Medicine is amazing and it is indeed a blessing, but it is nothing without you and your fucking will. I see this day in and day out in my coaching practice. You've not only seen proof of that in my story, but in the stories of every single woman I have featured on this podcast. You've even heard world renowned physician and number one New York Times best selling author, Dr.



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