EP25: A Loving Kick In the Pants Fearlessly Fertile Podcast

Caught up in a rut of self-pity and thinking other people just get “lucky,” on this journey? I’ve got a loving kick in the pants for you that will help you get out of that low vibe rut. The prosecutor in me came out in this episode, so it’s not for the faint of heart. It’s a dose of tough love, because I love you!



Transcript:

Hey gorgeous, if you want success on your fertility journey, you've got to have the mindset for it. It's time to kick fear, negativity, doubt, shame, jealousy, and the whole clown car of low vibe fertility journey BS to the curb. I'm your host, Roseanne Austin, Fertility Mindset Master. Former prosecutor and recovering type A control freak perfectionist.



I use the power of mindset to get pregnant naturally and have my baby boy at 43, despite years of fertility treatment failure. I help women across the globe beat the odds on their fertility journey just like I did. Get ready for a quick hit of confidence, joy, feminine badassery, and loads of hell yes for your fertility journey.



It's time to get fearless baby, fearlessly fertile. Let's do this. Welcome to the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast, episode 25. The kick in the pants you just might need. Hey, my darling! Love, in the past couple weeks, I've been sharing some special extra large episodes of the Fearlessly Fertile Podcast featuring incredibly inspiring stories of just a few of my ladies.



This week, I want to get down to some brass tacks with you on a topic that undoubtedly comes up. in the face of inspiring stories. It's tough love time, baby. I repeat, tough love. I am sharing what I'm sharing today because I love ya. I am getting tough on you this week because I give a shit and my instincts were kicking in that it might be time for the old prosecutor in me to come out and bring some thunder.



This is the kind of shit I wish someone had said to me on my journey. I didn't have a fertility journey big sister, so let me be yours right now. And just let me say this, if you are cool with being in a place of self pity or feeling bad, that's perfectly fine. You have the divine right to be miserable.



But if you want better, sister, keep listening. My darling, I know what you're thinking. Because I was you. Yes, my circumstances may have been a little different, but I get how women think on this journey. So if you feel like I'm calling you out in this episode, let there be no shame in your game, baby. I get it.



I used to think this way. That's why I can speak to it with Mad authority, okay? So, let's go there. As inspirational as the stories you have heard, all of the things that my gorgeous ladies who have beaten the odds on this journey have been sharing with you over the extra large episodes, and how you've been presented with living proof that what I am teaching you works, undoubtedly there is part of you saying, but they are different.



That will never be me. They must be smarter and more deserving. Bullshit. I'm going to love you enough right here and right now to tell you that's total f*****g b******t and thinking like that is a total cop out. It's a betrayal of all that you are and it is the worst kind of blasphemy to the higher power that created you.



Here's why holding yourself out to be less than or less deserving than other people on this journey is a cop out. It's lazy. It's a way of you hiding, and it's an excuse. When you live by the belief that you are less than, or that other people are more deserving than you, you chicken out from standing up for what you desire.



You chicken out for having to be the woman who believes when other people think she's crazy. You chicken out from living your journey by your rules. You chicken out! You capitulate. You back down. Gross, isn't it? The other thing that I bet you haven't thought of is, by saying that other people are just smarter or more deserving,